I often say, "I can't believe how fast this year went by".
This leads me to question whether I made the most of the time I had. And as the
years pass, this time becomes increasingly precious.
So, what do I continue to learn?
Letting life's challenges overwhelm me is counterproductive:
Each week, I face the biggest problem. Whatever it may be, it upsets me. I'm aware that dwelling on these problems isn't productive, but in the heat of the moment, this understanding often eludes me.
It's natural to sometimes feel overwhelmed by these challenges. However, I aspire to recognize the counterproductiveness of a victim mentality, prompting me to reframe and confront adversity head-on.
Takeaway: Treat life like a video game; embrace life’s adversities, level up, and tackle the next challenge.
Embracing open-mindedness is a strength:
It is imperative to constantly remind myself that the more emotional the discussion, the more crucial it is to be open-minded. Our digitally connected world has made this insight even more critical.
While I may strongly disagree with another’s perspective, I shouldn't judge them for their views. Disagreeing shouldn’t eliminate the possibility of trying to empathize.
Our biases are just that, biases—impressions formed throughout our lives, from lived experiences to nurtured beliefs.
Takeaway: The intention to understand others' viewpoints helps us better connect
with everyone around us.
Most worries are insignificant:
Unless we receive truly life-changing news, we need to realize that most things don't matter.
This insight is vital, especially considering my first point. We tend to catastrophize
non-catastrophic events. This hyperbole short-circuits our potential, sacrificing too
much of our power to imaginary anxieties.
Takeaway: Reflecting on an event and reframing its importance can quickly diffuse its impact.
Seeking support and openness to vulnerability are vitally important:
I cannot overstate how valuable it is to have a trusted confidant to lean on when we need it most. When our thinking becomes clouded, we should rely on those who can see clearly.
The courage to be vulnerable and admit that we don't have all the answers is not a weakness but a strength.
While I can articulate these lessons, I am still on the dance to fully leverage their
potential.
May 2024 be a year of gratitude and agency, and one where I continue to Quiet the Noise.
And when in doubt… Pause. Breathe. And Quiet the Noise.